For January, we’re covering our top five books for new managers. Becoming a boss often requires a different skill set than the one you’ve been mastering in the day-to-day of your field, and in many offices, you aren’t shown the ropes of management. To get started, check out our recommendations.

Mentorship is deeply rewarding, offering you a chance to demonstrate leadership, expand your network, and the opportunity to pay it forward. But without a thoughtful approach, mentorship can be a messy or even forgettable experience. Here are our top tips for being a great mentor.

Having a mentor is one of the most powerful relationships you can have. A mentor can help you identify next steps for your career, make connections with the right people or get over the hurdles of a transition.

But let’s be honest—you get back what you put into it, and being a good mentee helps your mentor help you even more. So what makes for an ideal mentee?